Focus on ROI

How many times have you heard this phrase? „Focus on ROI”. Basically we are told and taught that we should focus on what’s in it for us, right? What will return to us from our investment. Why can’t we do something out of kindness, without expecting returns on our investments? Granted, in business, whatever it’s […]

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Where is the life?

You wake up in the morning and you unlock your phone. The screen lights up and you glimpse at all the notifications, useless ones, important one, unexpected ones, looking for the ones that should have been there, but are missing. You start scrolling different apps, trying to „catch up with things” (how much did you […]

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Disappointements

I wonder why we are so keen on not disappointing others, but we have no real issues with disappointing ourselves… It really takes a toll on us, doesn’t it? Have you noticed how easy it is to just find excuses or get over the fact that we didn’t do what we ourselves planned to? Let […]

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Hate vs. Love

Dunno if you’re noticed, but it’s a lot easier to be mean than to be nice. Why’s that, I wonder? Is it the conservation instinct or simply just because we are so bombarded with information that we feel the need to put up all our walls and we react before we filter or understand our […]

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Modern Women

As a matter of fact, I don’t have a very good opinion on modern women. Most of them don’t have a back bone. They don’t take responsibility for what they should be doing as a woman. They demand and demand, yet they don’t offer too much in return. Makes you wonder where’s that silly equality […]

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Comfort vs. Growth

What do you think of teens these days compared with your own self, back in the day? Have you thought about it? Are you able to assess how things have changed since you were young and life was filled with books and atlases compared to tablets and smartphones? It’s amazing how lazy children have become. […]

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What’s the rush?

So… I saw this Instagram story with a young psychologist saying that she is trying to get rid of the habit of using her phone right before bedtime. The other night, I placed it on the cabinet which is slightly farther away from the bed. It was on silent mode. I sneaked into the covers […]

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For or Against ourselves

A thought popped into my mind the other day. Why are we so eager to not disappoint the others? Why do we care about what they think about us? Let’s get this straight: I am not implying we shouldn’t care about what others think. I just wonder why we are so eager to do things […]

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Monkey see, monkey do

We tend to blame people for imitating others, but when it comes down to it, isn’t life just that in the beginning? We imitated the adults when we start walking. It’s not like they sit behind us and put our feet one in front of the other. Or take laughing, for another example. No one […]

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Respect me first. Love me later.

Don’t say the words. Show the feeling behind them before anything else. What do I mean by that? Definitely nothing as trivial as what love apparently is these days. I am talking about respect. Hardcore respect. People say respect is not a given. Instead it’s earned. That’s true. It’s also true that if you want […]

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