For or Against ourselves

A thought popped into my mind the other day. Why are we so eager to not disappoint the others? Why do we care about what they think about us? Let's get this straight: I am not implying we shouldn't care about what others think. I just wonder why we are so eager to do things... Continue Reading →

Monkey see, monkey do

We tend to blame people for imitating others, but when it comes down to it, isn't life just that in the beginning? We imitated the adults when we start walking. It's not like they sit behind us and put our feet one in front of the other. Or take laughing, for another example. No one... Continue Reading →

Respect me first. Love me later.

Don't say the words. Show the feeling behind them before anything else. What do I mean by that? Definitely nothing as trivial as what love apparently is these days. I am talking about respect. Hardcore respect. People say respect is not a given. Instead it's earned. That's true. It's also true that if you want... Continue Reading →


A strong word for a title, huh? But let me tell you what I mean by it, oki? A few days before I saw on a fitness girl influencer's instastory that she was talking about something disturbing that had happened to her during one of the live workout she did. I was curious so I... Continue Reading →

Why don’t we believe in…

...people giving out free stuff? As in, when we see it's a new business trying to make its way through the market with a giveaway, why would you not trust it? Why is it that we only trust people who seem to have a benefit from helping us? Are they really that much more trustworthy?!... Continue Reading →

Show it if you mean it

If you say you're excited, I'll believe you *if* you're going to show it, too. If the behaviour doesn't match the words, then questions will pop into my mind. 🧐 Don't y'all feel the same?... Lately so many people say with the straightest of faces "I'm sooooo excited to do this and that". How can... Continue Reading →


You know that saying that goes something like "I don't get mad, I get even"? I don't know who said it and, to be honest, I am too lazy right now to look it up (on a side note, if we didn't have internet, I would have probably remembered who said it...). Question for this... Continue Reading →

Routine = Expectations

When you do the same things the same way every single day, you know how your day is going to unfold. I am not talking about planning your day. That's something totally different. I mean doing the same things every day, in the same order. Routines are good. They give us a sense of comfort,... Continue Reading →

Where we assign value

Money has value because we assign it to it. Without us saying "money is worth this or that", there won't be anything to it, right? I was thinking about what money is and I realized that it might just be just a physical quantifiable measurement of time. Years don't count, because you can't see years,... Continue Reading →

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